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Starting Over After Divorce: How I Found My Way Back to God

Divorce is a life-altering event. It shakes your world, upends your plans, and leaves you scrambling to pick up the pieces. I’ve been there. In the midst of trying to figure out how to make ends meet as a single mom, navigating the endless complications of court proceedings, and running a business, I lost sight of something crucial: my relationship with God.


For too long, I tried to fix everything on my own. I was so focused on the practicalities of starting over that I forgot to anchor my life in the One who could truly restore it. It was only when I stopped running in circles and turned to God that my healing began.

That’s why I created the Restored by Grace: Post-Divorce Guided Planner—to make sure no other woman of faith has to go through what I did without a clear path forward.


The Turning Point: Learning to Plan with God


After my divorce, I threw myself into survival mode. My days were consumed with court battles, work schedules, and making sure my child had what she needed. But at night, when the busyness faded, fear, worry, and anxiety were taking over. I'd been doing it by myself long enough to know that it wasn't enough. What difference did it make without the peace that surpasses all understanding? I was trying so hard to rebuild my life, but I wasn’t letting God into the process.


It wasn’t until I intentionally paused and asked God to show me His plan that everything began to change. I realized I needed more than a to-do list or a business plan—I needed a God-centered vision for my life.


With prayer, reflection, and guidance from Scripture, I started creating a framework for my days that put God at the center. This process not only helped me heal but also showed me how to build a life that aligned with His purpose. The Restored by Grace: Post-Divorce Guided Planner is the result of that journey.

Why This Planner Matters


If you’re anything like me, you’re probably feeling overwhelmed. Starting over isn’t easy, and it’s tempting to focus solely on practical tasks like finding a job or setting up a new home. But I want to remind you: your relationship with God is the foundation of everything else.


This planner is designed to help you prioritize your faith while addressing the practical steps of rebuilding your life. It’s filled with prompts, exercises, and planning tools that guide you to align your plans with God’s will. It’s about creating a life with Him, not just for Him.


A Tool for Women of Faith, By a Woman Who’s Been There


I didn’t create this planner as an expert—I created it as someone who understands. I know what it feels like to feel lost and alone, to wonder if you’re making the right choices, and to crave clarity from God. The Restored by Grace: Post-Divorce Guided Planner is a reflection of what I learned during my own journey, and it’s designed to be a companion for yours.


This isn’t just about planning; it’s about healing. It’s about creating space in your life to hear God’s voice, lean into His promises, and take intentional steps toward the future He has for you.


You Don’t Have to Do This Alone


Starting over after divorce is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do—but you don’t have to do it alone. God is with you every step of the way, and tools like this planner are here to help you stay focused on Him as you rebuild.


If you’re ready to move forward with faith, I invite you to try the Restored by Grace: Post-Divorce Guided Planner. It’s a resource born from my own struggles, and my prayer is that it helps you find the clarity, peace, and purpose you’re seeking.


With love and understanding,

Amanda Nicole



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